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There are many reasons behind why couples fall out of love with each other, or end up getting attracted to some other person. But almost always, it starts with these reasons.
#1 Falling in love too fast
It takes time to fall in love. But some people have a tendency to fall in love easily. It usually takes less than a minute to determine whether we like a person or not. But a lot more time should be taken to decide whether we love a person or not.
Falling in love should include getting to know the core of the person and building a compatible equation between each other, and shouldn’t involve just the simple act of getting attracted to each other.
Just take a look at celebrities. True love is announced within days of spending time with each other and a whirlwind romance starts until it ends in divorce, sometimes less than a few months later.
#2 Great expectations
We all desire to find partners with the perfect qualities. But when you seek perfection in a relationship, you’re building something up to doom. The more we expect, the more we get disappointed.
It’s human nature to never be satisfied and to want more. Besides the physical quality, there are a whole lot of things we look for in a mate. And when you don’t find those qualities in your partner, you still may love your partner but just not as much.
But that doesn’t mean you should accept mediocrity. It only means you get what you give. If you expect a perfect partner, you have to be willing to be the perfect partner in all ways too.
#3 Getting back to reality
Once the stage of infatuation is over, you begin to realize that the world isn’t all that rosy and your love isn’t as pretty as it once seemed. When the shine of new love begins to wear off, you see what is underneath the façade and most times, it’s not a pleasant sight. Besides love, relationships require work, effort and action, and many people are just not prepared for that.
#4 When priorities start to change
As time passes by, people in relationships change. Along with change, priorities also start to change and we start to put other things before love. When you’re with somebody for a long time and you don’t get the same attention from them as you used to, problems will begin to arise. When you resent change, you’d start to resent your partner and ultimately, the love starts to crumble away.
#5 Loss of chemistry
Chemistry is what makes a relationship so exciting. In the beginning, every relationship is full of creative chemistry! Work and other commitments sometimes take a backseat to this chemistry, and you’d have a hard time thinking of anything other than your sweetheart. But this doesn’t always last forever. As chemistry fizzles out, most relationships follow suit too.
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Elmo’s 20th birthday celebration (organized by Team Elmo)
Shakey’s El Pueblo
Watch the videos here:
Elmo arrives at the party venue:
Fans singing happy birthday to Elmo:
Elmo’s message to his fans:
What he said about the party: